Chapter III
Cosmic Partners

by Michael J. Lincoln

                "You can't leap the chasm in two small bounds . . .      --- Lloyd George

Welcome to "Chapter III" -- with nine years in between this and "Chapter II".  In that interim, a very large number of "cosmic partnerships" have been observed, tracked and followed up.  This paper is a presentation of the findings of this process. 

In the first place, it should be noted again that these are NOT the usual "normal range" relationships.  They are actually commitments by both inner essences or "souls" or "spirits", and they represent a Divine intervention by the "Home Office".  The partners come to each other around very deep, very imperative, and very impending issues that reflect lesson refusals or lesson prevention’s that now have to be dealt with forthwith.  As was said earlier, they usually represent a "make it or break it" situation.  They are an awakening, a sign-pointer of where you have to go.  They are therefore not a "relationship" in the usual sense.  They indicate what you need to do, experience, learn, or become in order to reach your Destiny.  The characteristics of the partner and the events during the partnership period do the pointing. 

Cosmic partners are for experience-based learning and lessons.  Mental, objective or acquired knowledge just doesn't do it because what is being affected, activated and hopefully healed is almost always very early developmental and pre-mental stuff, often involving even intrauterine learning’s.  The partner forces you to be face-to-face with your issues 24 hours a day until you get the lesson.  Then it suddenly turns quietly neutral and the utterly impelling nature of the thing lifts, to be replaced by the "warm, fuzzy" experience -- if the lessons have been learned.  Cosmic partnerships are about deprogramming, denemisizing (ending your "fatal attraction" hang-ups) and redesigning your operational ego for action on your Destiny. 

There is usually one major lesson to be learned, along with a large number of other, more subtle lessons that evolve out over time, after the intense initial period has completed.  There may also be some karmic settlings involved for the two people involved.  The partnerships are multi-dimensional and often "delayed action" in their purposes and impact.  The effects usually play out over a long time after the initial intense learning is completed.  The purposes are almost always not known until this intense initial period is over, but all of the lessons are covered one way or another in the process.  And when the partnership is successful, it results in major transformations of your life.  They are truly profoundly healing experiences when they work. 

Unfortunately, they all too often don't work all that well.  Frequently, one partner learns and the other one doesn't.  Unhappily often, there is a non-reciprocation reaction in which one partner doesn't commit to the process.  Or worse still, one partner starts exploiting the situation to their own negative ego advantage.  (There are huge karmic consequences for this, as the "Home Office" definitely doesn't like that.  And they often start almost immediately in the exploiting partner's life).  Sometimes both partners refuse the experience or they don't get the lessons/messages of the intervention.  And sadly, sometimes the partners end up in a near-hatred outcome.  The not surprising but unfortunate fact is that about 75% of cosmic partnerships don't result in the hoped for outcome.  After all, they are "punt" interventions in a very rigidly fixed system situation. 

As for the process itself, it usually involves a lot of "roller coaster" ups and downs, and it becomes all-consuming and obsessional in its impact and nature.  There are often "nemisis figure", abuse, and incestual issues and components that are to be worked through.  This becomes particularly sticky when the lessons to be learned involve releasing severe sexual damage or massive "sealed unit" isolation issues (the "person without a cosmos" experience), where sexual involvement is part of the required learning experiences. 

While involved in the initial intensity process, the partners frequently go through their stages of learning in synch, and they are massively in tune with each other.  There is a very strong feeling of cosmic idealism and "happily ever after" expectations.  The partners are also usually completely immersed in the process, and they are blindly impelled and overwhelmed by all that is going on.  They are effectively closed off from the world while they are in the all-consuming period.  And to make matters even more intense, because of the damage and deep distrust of the Universe and the human race issues brought up by the partnership, extreme rage over the issues raised is always a part of the process.  It is indeed an emotional commotional all-encompassing experience!   Incidentally, this initial intensity period may last a few days or it may go on for months, depending on who the partners are, what the lessons are, and how they are responded to and handled. 

To make matters even more complicated, loaded, demanding, and potentially dangerous, cosmic partnerships usually generate an enormous ecological impact with their intimates, with bystanders, with affected others, and with the "howling mob" of primitive consciousness people in the world.  There is almost always a really hostile reaction from the environment, as if others can't stand real love or as if the partnership is going to bring an end to the world as they know it. 

The fact of the matter is, though, that the social ecology is always provided with a golden opportunity to confront and work out a lot of deep issues within themselves and between each other when a comic partnership occurs.  And indeed, some associates of the partners do just that, with the result that they end up as transformed as the partners do.  It's as if the cosmic partnership sets off chain reaction change processes within people like a row of dominos.  And sometimes the social environment is even recruited to help run the dominos effect with the partners and with the people in their ecologies to their successful completion. 

As for the spouse's situation when a cosmic partnership is happening, the process of keeping them informed can only be used if the spouse isn't going to go off the deep end over it.  If the spouse is too unstable or insecure to inform at first, it may have to wait until things are clearer and a little less overwhelmingly intense before the spouse(s) are brought into the situation.  And it is also true that the initial period of the partnership has to be done alone in order for the effects to take hold.  But as soon as it is possible, the spouse needs to be healingly incorporated into the process and the resulting reverberations -- even if one of the lessons is that the spouse has been a "teaching relationship" that needs to be moved to another role in the person's life. 

After the dust of the early phase of the partnership settles, the major lessons have been learned, and the many other more subtle lessons and effects are unfolding, the partners usually end up as colleagues or profoundly good friends.  In the unfortunate outcome situations, though, they can end up as enemies.  But they rarely end up as spouses.  These are transformative and lesson-learning relationships, not lifelong mate situations in almost all instances.  They would be too abrasive and invasive as lifelong intimate living partners because of the nature of the match-up for the lessons in the first place. 

It seems odd that after ten years, the total information learned in this process that can be communicated on paper encompasses a total of only 17 pages for such a profound and important phenomenon.  But the information contained in those pages is extremely succinct and intensely important when dealing with such a situation, no matter what your role in it is.  One thing to keep in mind is that it is a Divine intervention in a serious situation, and it should be regarded as a "gift from God" for all who are affected.  If this is the approach taken, it is highly likely that all will benefit enormously to the degree that they committedly and compassionately seek to make the best of the situation for everyone. 

Chapter III Cosmic Partners

Narayan Singh

Current Divine Intervention

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